试题出自试卷《00012《英语（一）》真题及答案解析（2023.04）》

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There are many difficult matters in family relationship.One of them is that you don't control the （1）relationship yourself.
hen major family relationship problems occur，it's （2） to attempt a control strategy. You try to get the other person to change. Sometimes this approach works， （3）if your request and the other person's are both reasonable.But many times it doesn't.
On the other hand, if you can't change other people, maybe you should . （4）accept them as they are.That's another strategy that sometimes works.But sometimes this can lead to bitterness and （5） if your needs aren't being （6）.
There is, however, a third option (选择). You can change yourself in a(n) . （7）  that solves the problem. This （8）  that you reconsider the problem as an internal one instead of a(n) （9）one. This means that you need to （10）your awareness and make a change in your beliefs.